Do you ever feel like the day just slips by without you truly being present for it? Between work, responsibilities, and the constant buzz of notifications, it's easy to move through life on autopilot. But when you pause, breathe, and bring intention to your day, everything shifts-you feel calmer, more in control, and more connected to yourself and the world around you.
The good news? You don't need to overhaul your entire routine to cultivate mindfulness. Small, intentional shifts can make a big difference. Here are five simple yet powerful ways to be more mindful and intentional with your day.
1. Start Your Morning with an Intention
How you begin your day sets the tone for everything that follows. Instead of jumping straight into Emails or social media, take a moment to center yourself. I personally like to wait at least 30 minutes before picking up my phone for the day to ensure I have that time to ground myself in the morning and set the intention.
Try this:
- Before getting out of bed, take three deep breaths and ask yourself: "How do I want to feel today?"
You can also set a simple intention, such as:
- "I will move through today with ease and gratitude."
- "I will be fully present in my interactions."
- "I will prioritize peace over perfection."
- Write your intention down or say it out loud to reinforce it. (My personal preference is to do it in the bathroom after I’ve washed my face and brushed my teeth. It feels like I’m setting the tone and gives me the confidence that I may need, some days more than others).
This small habit helps you move through your day with purpose rather than reacting to whatever comes your way.
2. Slow Down and Breathe Between Tasks
One thing my friends know about me is that I’m always running around from one task to the other or reading some new book or even listening to my favorite list of podcasts. Productivity has always been my number one goal (in whichever way it shows up in my life and depending on the task at hand). This habit leaves me feeling scattered and overwhelmed and I think it’s safe to say that I’m not alone on that. Instead, build small pauses into your day.
Try this:
- Before switching tasks, take three deep breaths to reset.
- Between meetings, errands, or even before eating, take a moment to check in with yourself:
- How am I feeling right now?
- Am I holding tension anywhere in my body?
- If you feel overwhelmed, place your hand over your heart, take a deep breath, and exhale slowly. These micro-moments of mindfulness help you feel more grounded and less rushed throughout the day.
3. Practice Mindful Eating
How often do you eat while distracted-scrolling your phone, watching TV, or rushing through a meal? My boyfriend and I are totally guilty of this. I’ll be the first to share that on lunch breaks, we almost always eat and watch a tv show that we love together and thinking about it now as I write this, that’s probably somewhere we could improve on. Baby steps of course! Overall, when you eat mindfully, food becomes more nourishing, and digestion improves. I’ll let you in on a secret, sometimes I’ll draw a Reiki symbol over the food to enhance the nourishment. This is just one of the many tips I’ve learned from my Reiki master! Below are a few ways that you can begin to practice this.
Try this:
- Before eating, take a deep breath and express gratitude for your meal.
- Observe the colors, textures, and smells of your food before taking a bite.
- Chew slowly and savor each bite, noticing the flavors.
- Put your utensils down between bites to slow the pace.
By being fully present with your food, you cultivate a deeper connection to your body and its needs.
4. Be Present in Conversations
In today's world, it's easy to be physically present but mentally elsewhere-thinking about what to say next, checking your phone, or letting your mind wander. When you practice mindful listening, you create stronger, more meaningful connections.
Try this:
- When talking to someone, put away distractions (yes, even your phone). 📱
- Make eye contact and focus on the person in front of you.
- Listen fully without interrupting or planning your response.
- Take a breath before responding to be more intentional with your words.
When you give someone your full attention, you not only deepen your relationships but also feel more connected to the present moment.
5. End Your Day with Gratitude and Reflection
Let’s be honest, it's way too easy to go to bed replaying what went wrong or worrying about tomorrow (@ the Sunday Scaries). But a simple reflection practice can shift your mindset and help you end the day on a positive note.
Try this:
- Before bed, write down or mentally list three things you're grateful for from the day. They can be small-like a beautiful sunset, a kind conversation, or a moment of laughter.
- Reflect on one thing that went well and acknowledge yourself for it.
- If the day felt challenging, ask: "What did today teach me?" 📚
This practice helps rewire your brain to focus on the good, bringing a sense of peace before sleep.
Bringing More Mindfulness into Your Life
Mindfulness isn't about doing everything perfectly-it's about bringing awareness and intention into your everyday moments. This has been a hard pill to swallow for even myself, but the more I believe it and practice it, the more natural it’s becoming. 🪴
Here's a quick recap of how to be more mindful today:
Set a morning intention.
Pause and breathe between tasks.
Eat mindfully without distractions.
Be fully present in conversations.
End your day with gratitude and reflection.
Small shifts lead to big transformations over time. Which one of these will you try first? ✨
With love and light,
- Jess💫
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